5.18.2012
An ugly fence...
Remember how I painted the shed because it was ugly and it was the first thing you'd notice as you pulled in our driveway? Well now, the first thing you'd notice would be this janky garden fence that PRH constructed yesterday. To his credit, it is built well and he only used salvaged materials, but let's back up a bit. PRH needed a fence around his vegetable garden and we didn't want to spend a ton of money. He had some sort of light bulb moment and said, "There's a bunch of fencing behind the barn! I'll just straighten it out and use that!". I said, "Hmmmm...the fencing behind the barn? It's not going to look like crap? Remember, it's the first thing you see when you pull in the driveway. But alright, let's see how it looks.". An hour later...yikes. Our friend, Ken, called it "rustic" and "charming"- he was being kind. PRH is proud of it, though. I'm hoping it looks better with vegetables, but what I really want to do is shoot lasers from my eyeballs and burn it to the ground.
My point isn't to pick on my poor husband or burn his fence down (although if it did accidentally start on fire...). My point is this: during the course of a renovation, design sensibilities can and, very often, do clash. Big time. For us, the key is knowing when to step back and ask yourself if arguing about a fence is really worth it? It isn't. Ugly fence for the win.
Labels:
aesthetics,
exterior,
farm,
fence,
garden,
gardening,
outdoor,
outside,
prh,
renovation,
renovations,
rural
5.17.2012
High five...
My five favorite things from around blogland recently (the bonfire edition).
- 1. This photo by Carla Teneyck epitomizes summer (via Style Me Pretty). Bring on the marshmallows!
- 2. Don't parties in black and white always look more fun? Photo from Martha Stewart.
- 3. Why not toss some citrus peels in the fire? Photo by Aya Brackett for Real SImple.
- 4. Chocolate cookie s'mores look so tasty. Photo by Stephanie Brubaker for stephmodo.
- 5. Sticks have never looked so pretty. Leave it to Martha Stewart, right?
5.16.2012
Creativity and kids...
At the barn sale*, I had a conversation with Sarah from Handbags*N*Pigtails about encouraging kids to be creative. She found an old Pepsi crate and was planning to use it to store her kiddos' art supplies. EZ E and Kicky draw a lot. I think part of the reason they do is because we keep art supplies within easy reach. Most of the time, everything is just right on the table...paper, scissors, glue, tape, markers, crayons, etc.
We also have wires on our kitchen wall where they can display everything they make. I clean everything off once a month or so to make room for new artwork, stashing the favorites away in a tote (ahem...a drawing of me with pointy boobs and a big belly, anyone?).
Yes, moments like this do happen occasionally, but it's really not a big deal, is it? She looks good blue.
I'd love to hear how you encourage your kiddos (and yourself!) to be creative.
*the best part of the barn sale was meeting so many of you! Wow! I was seriously shocked (and thrilled) that so many blog readers showed up. I hope the "real Abbey" didn't terrify you all.
Labels:
art,
art project,
arts and crafts,
children,
craft,
craft project,
creative,
drawing,
family,
home,
kids,
parenthood,
parenting
5.15.2012
Kindergarten bound...
EZ E has his kindergarten screening this morning. I'm not sure how we went from having this baby to having a boy ready for kindergarten. Again, I'm reminded of the quote: "...in raising children, the days are long but the years are short".
5.14.2012
Poppies...
I was rushing out of the house on Saturday morning, when this huge red poppy caught my eye and made me slow down a bit. Isn't it gorgeous?! Since I'm relatively new to gardening, I feel very fortunate to have walked into a property like this. I've been anxiously waiting for plants to bloom, hoping to identify what's growing here. I know we have these all of these flowers and a bunch of apple trees, and I was thrilled to see big, orangey-red poppies! The people who owned this house before us clearly loved to garden. These poppies live in a flower bed by our back door. The flower beds were overgrown and hideous, so I took out the old wooden boards and stripped out a lot of weeds (you can see the before images here). Thankfully, I left the poppies alone.
Here's what the flowers beds looked like in the rain this morning. PRH set those plastic pots in there until he finds a spot (they're lilacs and stonecrop). The beds are still a work in progress, but we're getting there. I'm hoping that stump grows back- my uncle cut it down when he was fixing the chimney, but I have no idea what it is...something thorny.
On the left side, we have poppies, lavender, hens and chicks, and daffodils.
I can't wait to see what else arrives.
Labels:
DIY,
farm,
farm house,
farmhouse,
garden,
gardening,
grow,
home,
plants and animals
5.12.2012
Giveaway winner...
Happy National Train Day, everyone! The winner of our giveaway, sponsored by B. toys and Amtrak, is Marla! She said, "i would LOVE to take a train through the canadian rockies". Congratulations, Marla- just send me an email at hownowdesign [at] yahoo [dot] com and we'll send out your prize!
5.11.2012
This weekend...
I'm heading out early to finish up some last minute projects and get ready for the barn sale tomorrow. Have a happy weekend and a happy Mother's day, everyone! This bizarre collection of blond Fisher Price moms lives in my studio.
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collecting,
collections,
holiday,
this weekend,
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5.10.2012
Barn sale sneak peek...
This weekend is my parents' annual barn sale and I thought you may enjoy a sneak peek. Again, here are the details:
- May 12 and 13- 9 am to 5 pm
- 5835 State Route 38, Newark Valley, New York 13811 (my parents' farm)
Hope to see you there!
Labels:
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barn sale,
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collecting,
collections,
sale,
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vintage,
vintage toys
5.09.2012
High five...
My five favorite things from around blogland recently...
- 1. I love everything about this building by Philipp Mainzer (found via Martha McQuade).
- 2. Can you imagine building a whole house made of pallets? This prototype was designed by I-Beam Architecture and Design (via Jetson Green).
- 3. The granny square gods may strike me dead, but I'm not normally a fan of granny squares. This blanket by MUITA IHANIA is so very lovely, though. (found via Elsie Larson).
- 4. Raise your hand if you had no idea giant washi tape existed. I didn't neither! It's from Sincol (found via Erin Austen Abbott via the sub-studio design blog).
- 5. Check out how the wall behind these British Standard Cupboards is painted. And then head over to remodelista to see how the upper cabinets are painted. So rad. (found via Shannon).
Labels:
architecture,
arts and crafts,
cabinet,
craft,
design,
fave,
faves,
favorites,
Handmade,
high five,
interior,
interior design,
kitchen
5.08.2012
On real life...
There are a lot of things that we miss about living in Buffalo- the Mr. Cool truck is one of them. Today is one of those days where I wish we could wander around Albright-Knox, grab lunch at The Falafel Bar, check out what's going on at WNYBAC, pick up groceries at Guercio's, and head back out for a late-night beer at Ulrich's. Buffalo is an interesting contrast to the (occasionally deafening) quiet of our place here in Owego. I've written before (here and here) about the challenges of moving from a city that we loved to the rural area where I grew up. At the end of this month, it'll be three years and yet, for me (and me only), this continues to be a struggle. Don't get me wrong, I feel lucky to spend so much time with my babes, being near family is almost always positive, reconnecting with old friends has been fabulous, being able to work from home is great, and I love our house and working on renovation projects. So what's my freaking deal?! I'm having a hard time articulating exactly what it is, but what I do know is that I feel endlessly restless. That feeling is nothing new for me- it's one of the reasons I moved away years ago...and kept moving. I had always thought that that sort of 'grass is always greener' mentality was driving me to do bigger and better things but, frankly, it can also be exhausting. I know I'm not the only one who feels this way. Maybe you do? If so, I encourage you to read these posts by Jess, Jenny, Ez, Erin, Rena, and Nichole. The point of my post today? To let you know that you're not alone and to remind everyone (including myself) that this space is typically me at my best, but not my all.
5.07.2012
Back in business...
My little shop is open again!
5.04.2012
This weekend...
These plant markers by No Jo is Average are quite clever, aren't they (found via Jen Craun)? Let's pretend that we're all going to be outside working in beautiful gardens this weekend, okay? Unfortunately, in real life, I have a freelance project to finish; we have a funeral to attend; we have to install a new stove because the old one started on fire two days ago; and we have to fix the lawnmower because I broke it yesterday (you've seen our lawn before, right?). Not fun. I do, however, hope that your real life weekend is fabulous!
Refinishing hardwood floors...
Let's talk hardwood floors this morning. One of the most common questions readers ask is about refinishing floors. We rented an industrial sander, sanded down all of the floors, stained, and clear-coated the floors ourselves. No matter what products you use, I don't think it's an easy job, but it is do-able. We started by cleaning all of the floors with an industrial cleaning product called Mex All-Purpose Cleaner. We mixed it with very hot water at maximum strength, mopped it on, let it sit for a few minutes, mopped again, and then used a putty knife to scrape off the old varnish, paper, and glue. Mex removed the varnish, so make sure you throw away the mop head once you're done.
We used three different types of sandpaper, starting with the roughest grit first and working our way to the smoothest. When you rent the sander, they give you a supply of sandpaper and you only pay for what you use. It cost approximately $500 to refinish the hardwood floors on the entire 1st floor, which (I'm guessing) is about 1000 square feet.
The tricky thing with our floors was that each room on the first floor is a different type (color) of wood, but we wanted them all to look the same. My dad taught us this trick to determine what stain to go with: after sanding down all of the floors, rub a damp cloth on the floor in each room. The wet spot mimics what the floor will look like when it's polyurethaned, so you should choose a stain that matches the darkest wet spot. If you look at the image above, the floor on the right is coated in clear polyurethane (and nothing else)- the floor on the left was stained and polyurethaned to match. This is what our kitchen floors looked like when we started...
Below is an image of the dining room after the floors had been sanded. You can kind of see how the floors are two different colors. We put the tape down to remind ourselves where not to apply stain...
This image is after the floors were stained, but before being polyurethaned. Polyurethane has an extraordinarily strong odor and, having little kids, I'm not sure we'd go with it a second time. Besides waxing, which I've heard is really labor intensive, I'm not really sure what other durable options are out there, though. If you do go with polyurethane, make sure you can open all of the windows, use fans, and allow it to dry completely (follow product directions). We moved furniture too soon, so now we have a few divots that we need to touch up (not a huge deal)...
Here's a shot of the living room floors before...

and after...
another shot of the kitchen before (well, during)...
and after...
I know I've said it before, but you're all lucky that you can't smell the before photos. Blech! The stench was pretty unbearable. The previous owners had dogs and the house had been abandoned for a while, so there were some animal stain issues. We were able to sand out some of the really bad spots, but not others. The smell came out, which was what we were really shooting for. The floors aren't perfect, but this is an 1800's farmhouse- they don't have to be perfect. Let me know if there's something I missed or if you have any questions. This is the first time we've refinished floors, so I'll try to answer them as best I can. And if anyone knows of a durable alternative to polyurethane, please leave your suggestions in the comments.
Labels:
DIY,
farm house,
farmhouse,
floor,
flooring,
hardwood floors,
projects,
renovation,
renovations
5.03.2012
National Train Day...
Did you know that next week is National Train Day? One of my fondest memories is taking an Amtrak train across the U.S., starting in Syracuse, New York and ending in Grand Junction, Colorado. The opportunity to see so much of the country from a train was honestly what made it one of the most memorable trips I've ever taken. At every big city stop, we'd tour around the city with people we met on our journey, which proved to be really interesting and really fun. That level of congeniality amongst perfect strangers is something that I've never witnessed during any other mode of travel. Amazing!
Our friends at B. toys are celebrating National Train Day with Amtrak by giving away a set of Stackadoos so children can build their own trains. Just leave a comment, telling us the place you'd like to visit next! I'll randomly draw a name and announce the winner on Saturday, May 12th! Here are some more details about National Train Day:
Join Amtrak on Saturday May 12th, in celebration of National Train Day and learn about all the different ways trains touch the lives of people and families around the country!
The celebration will take place at train stations in New York City, Philidelphia, Chicago and Los Angeles, as well as numerous other stations throughout the country. The events will feature live entertainment, interactive exhibits, culinary demonstrations, kid's activities, model trains, tours of Amtrak freight and commuter cars, and private railroad cars! To find an event near you visit: national train day.
National Train Day marks the 143rd anniversary of the creation of the nation's first transcontinental railroad. On May 10, 1869, in Promontory Summit, Utah, the 'golden spike' was driven into the final tie that joined 1,776 miles of the Central Pacific and Union Pacific railways, forever transforming the face and character of America.
♥ giveaway rules:
eligibility: open to all Aesthetic Outburst readers, worldwide
how to enter: leave a comment on this post (one comment per person, please)
entry deadline: comments will close on Friday, May 11, 2012
winner selection: 1 winner will be chosen at random
winner notification: On Saturday morning, I'll announce the winner.
claiming your calendar: send me an email at hownowdesign (at) yahoo (dot) com with your mailing address and I'll pop your Stackadoos in the mail! Winners must respond within three (3) days of notification or forfeit the prize, in which case an alternate winner will be selected.
5.02.2012
High five...
My five favorite things from around blogland recently...
- 1. My love affair with buildings made from shipping containers continues. (image via petraalsbach found via Deborah Beau).
- 2. This necklace by One Eyed Dog reminds me of EZ E. He's really into planets and constellations right now, which I think is insanely cute (found via Erin Austen Abbott).
- 3. Etsy Weddings is here and it's quite lovely! Isn't this bouquet by Muncle Fred Art sweet?
- 4. This brass phantom diamond ring by Cameo is calling my name. For whatever reason, I like that it makes me think of brass knuckles (found via Brittany Watson Jepsen).
- 5. My first thought when I saw this? Damn straight! (image by the acid dream spaceship found via Jennifer Hagler).
Labels:
architecture,
blog,
blogs,
design,
etsy,
faves,
favorites,
graphic design,
high five,
jewelry,
quotes,
wedding
5.01.2012
Myra...
Our super-talented friend, artist Myra Greene, has been working on her photo project My White Friends for the past five years. German art publisher KEHRER VERLAG is interested in publishing the book (yay!!!) and Myra needs our help bringing the book to life. This project is near and dear to my heart not only because I love Myra and know she's talented, but also because she's brilliantly photographed so many of our favorite people. I literally watched the video over and over again last night (and then stalked Myra's facebook page), missing our friends. But I digress. Here's Myra's description of the project:
My White Friends extends my 10-year exploration into photography’s description of race. This body of images explores the challenges of describing whiteness and assumptions about social circles. For this body of photographs I ask those close to me who identify as white about the qualities of their racial identity. These color images depict confidants, mentors and peers who have shaped my understanding of identity even though we have different racial profiles. They are attempts to image a racial category that has an intangible description. Some images are documents of my time with friends, others are performances of whiteness by the sitter, and then there are images in which I impose my own stereotypes of whiteness.
Now, go watch the video, check out the photographs, and please consider joining PRH and I in supporting our friend Myra.
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art,
art project,
artist,
artists,
book arts,
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Myra Greene,
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